Category Archives: Life

Our Visit To Patreon

A couple months ago, a Patreon employee reached out to me, having seen the comic I did with Keovi on Erika Moen’s Oh Joy Sex Toy site. She said that Patreon knows they have a lot of customers from the … Continue reading

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The Shape of Love (Personal)

You folks who have had to come out to family and friends know that it’s hard to pick the right time. Holidays are often the most convenient time because everyone’s together, and yet there’s so much else going on that … Continue reading

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My Furry Identity

One of my college friends transitioned from male to female a couple years ago. One of the things she told me as she was in the midst of her transition was that when someone called her “she,” it gave her … Continue reading

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“The Time He Desires” ACLU Donation Made!

Hey guys! Remember how FurPlanet and I decided to donate proceeds from sales of “The Time He Desires” to the ACLU to help fight gross stuff like the Muslim ban and┬álots of other terrible threats happening in the country? We … Continue reading

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The Naming of Foxes

I have a guest blog post up at Entropy Magazine about fursonas, pseudonyms, and suchlike. It’s one of the first places I publicly link my real name and this one, and I talk about the experience of becoming someone else … Continue reading

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X-Phobia: The word(s) and the myths

Preview: the views below are intended to help people try to have constructive discussions around prejudice, and to learn how to understand other people so we can all share our experience. It’s kinda long, talks about prejudice, and insists on … Continue reading

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Oscar Time: Why Moonlight Should Win

…though it still probably won’t. I’ve now seen all nine Best Picture nominees, and here’s my ranking of them (in tiers). This is based on an assessment of the film’s craft, not how much I liked it (*). At the … Continue reading

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Courses of Action

Our conversations in my friend circles, both in the real world and on Twitter, have for the past few months been taken over by politics. Who’s done what, who’s going to do what, how can we stop someone from doing … Continue reading

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

If you’ve got someone(s) to spend your day with, may you have a lovely happy day, and remember Dan Savage’s advice: sex before dinner. If you don’t have someone to spend the day with, don’t despair! Spend it with yourself … Continue reading

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Since You Asked…

After the recent Slate article about “The Time He Desires,” I got a few inquiries from people to the effect of “don’t you think it’s ironic to be defending Islam with a character who would be executed in most Muslim … Continue reading

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